“What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small.

This is the answer to a question that pop up a few days ago. I guess this is the reason why and indeed, is very true. Somehow, talking to friends are different in the sense of voice tone and expression than to your other half. Probably is the attachment, "an invisible string" that tied to each others heart. Sometimes, miraculously, no words are needed. Only just by plainly looking at each others will do best with the million sense of relief. That's love. In which the other half can indirectly push the "on" button in one's heart....

So it goes like:

ONCE a professor asked his students: “Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?” The students thought for a while before one of them said: “We shout because we lose our calm.”

“But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?”

The students gave various answers, none of which satisfied the professor.

Finally he explained: “When two people are angry with each other, their hearts distance. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the louder they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.”

Then he asked: “What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small.

“When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak – they only whisper and get closer to each other in their love.

“Finally they do not even need to whisper. They only look at each other, that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.”

So, when you argue, do not let your hearts get distant or say words that distance each other even more, or there may come a day when the distance is so great you will not find the path back to each other.

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Happy New Year 2011~!!!!

Wishing my family, my friends and whoever whom I care or whoever that care for me, a blessed great year ahead with good health, happiness and good wealth.

As for me, new year is just another day after the date of 31st December marking the end of the cycle in a calender year. The one that really make significant difference is that how we are determine to change and written the this so called "new chapter or resolution". Is all in our own hands of changing things and making a difference regardless whether is a new year or not. We can changed things even it could be in the same year itself. Nothing is moved if we refused to moved forward...

Anyway, this year new year is like the same old new year. I stayed at home listening to the sound of fireworks. Guess, I am not the type that really liked to be in the spot of counting down. Probably I can't find a bunch of really crazy clicks for me to join in to do crazy stuff. Else, I would really love it so much to spend the quiet nights at home with my family all around...and this is the warmth that always comfort me so much.

Will be spending 1st of January 2011 at Prai, Penang. My cousin brother is having his wedding reception over there. Sigh. Kinda tired actually because this week itself I've travelled so many miles. Going to and fro Malacca to Shah Alam to Malacca to Seremban to Malacca to Shah Alam to Penang to Shah Alam and finally to Malacca on very very early of Monday morning due to the first 9am first class of the new semester....

Anyhow, I hope I would picked up myself again after all the things..and looking forward for things to flow =))