Have you thought of who were the first person or first few close friends that you met in the kindy? Or the closet friend that you have or had when you start your primary? Or whoever that made you cried and hate them so much during your primary school time? Indeed, I'm sure just like me and everyone's memory, there will be a deep impression of some unforgettable events or people during the childhood period. I can say that some of it are still vividly in memory but some of it might have completely vanished, only to be recalled when you saw some familiar names or faces in some social networking sites. It is such a funny thing in this thing called "fate". It made us meet the person in our lives and sometimes it takes it away with the hatred, love, silence, fightings...or whatever that might happened in between. It is such a funny thing that you can dislike a peer so much during childhood, and eventually, that person might end up being a good friend and I've even seen some becoming lovers.
In anyways, as the age is adding up in the years to come, I've realized there are so many things will no longer the same. Our thinking, mindset, outlook towards life... generosity and selfishness towards the people around, they are changing as time goes by. In fact. the fighting to get the best in life made us changed adding up to the responsibilities on hand as we grew older. There are so many types of people now, in this big big sophisticated world...different faces, different names and the complex part is = human with different attitude. Some may need companions and some prefer to be lonesome. Some may be selfish and carefree. Some may be generous and selfless. Some may be outspoken. Some may be timid. These are just the nature of a human's attitude and how the effect of the things surrounding them as they grew up towards their outlook and thinking.
It is the fate that a human can't determined of who will come into their lives and may stay or might leave. The fate is the one that determine the causes of their doings and acts. Regardless of that, a human can certainly add some control to their destiny. Destiny is predetermined in our own, very own hands, although it is small. We're the one that control the choices and alternatives landed for us....
So.....no matter what the consequences (better days, rough days, laughters, tears), it is the choice that we've made our own and it is the non-humanistic determinant that control the outcomes...
The most important thing is to bear in mind and foresee our responsibilities clear towards what are the right thing that we should do. For instance, filial piety and nothing above that...and be a merciful person because whatever that goes around from your hands, are the one that comes around back to your own hands, scattered towards the people around in your fate.
In anyways, as the age is adding up in the years to come, I've realized there are so many things will no longer the same. Our thinking, mindset, outlook towards life... generosity and selfishness towards the people around, they are changing as time goes by. In fact. the fighting to get the best in life made us changed adding up to the responsibilities on hand as we grew older. There are so many types of people now, in this big big sophisticated world...different faces, different names and the complex part is = human with different attitude. Some may need companions and some prefer to be lonesome. Some may be selfish and carefree. Some may be generous and selfless. Some may be outspoken. Some may be timid. These are just the nature of a human's attitude and how the effect of the things surrounding them as they grew up towards their outlook and thinking.
It is the fate that a human can't determined of who will come into their lives and may stay or might leave. The fate is the one that determine the causes of their doings and acts. Regardless of that, a human can certainly add some control to their destiny. Destiny is predetermined in our own, very own hands, although it is small. We're the one that control the choices and alternatives landed for us....
So.....no matter what the consequences (better days, rough days, laughters, tears), it is the choice that we've made our own and it is the non-humanistic determinant that control the outcomes...
The most important thing is to bear in mind and foresee our responsibilities clear towards what are the right thing that we should do. For instance, filial piety and nothing above that...and be a merciful person because whatever that goes around from your hands, are the one that comes around back to your own hands, scattered towards the people around in your fate.
